Friday, February 25, 2011

If in this lifetime, I m nt ur's, I'll make sure that if I meet you in my next life I would nt think twice 2 say "I waited a lifetime to say I Luv U"

A very famous quote about Love ......

"If You Really Love Someone Set It Free.
If He Comes Back He Was Meant To Be Yours, If Not He Wasn't Meant To Be.."

I still remember the eighth grade literature class when I first heard this saying from my teacher. Today !!! Cheers to my memory , I do not remember the context on which she spoke but I still remember those lines as they had an amazing impact on me for few days way back then...

After school in those days ...during the ride back home , I use to repeat these two lines like a million times in my mind for no reason.... It was just like a child's fascination to cherish the new learnings. The kind of questions which crossed my mind were ..... How could someone phrase a simple meaning of expressing that the greatest happiness of love is in accepting the reality with a smile , in the most elegant and beautiful lines.

Of course cherishing few lines, articles or books is harmless but when it comes to applying them in our own lives then its totally different...:)...

For someone like me who was always in her "lala" land of love stories like the cinderella, snow white etc...I use to think genuinely that every gal in this world is a princess and a prince Charles is just custom made for her in this world somewhere and will be placed in her life in the right time....This was even proven with the release of DDLJ that year...aaaahhhh!!! and the diversion went from Prince Charles to Raj.... fantasy land palace to LONDON Bridge....

So!!!! That was the the time when the perception changed and started taking its place in actual people's world and not the Disney world......But even then the actual meaning of those lines had not hit me.....for that I had to first fall in love and ofcourse not with the dream Raj...

I use to think.....ahhh when I will see him , what will happen? what will go wrong? will the world stop around me? will my heart skip alternative beats??? lol.....etc etc...just like a typical teenager.....

Well...!!! but Time answers all of them that were just left as "???"........With time loads of emotions change ... Graduation, leaving home , getting over home sickness and missing parents , learning to live alone , cherishing all those college memories and friends , making new friends, new job , work , tension and finally just moving on as life takes you..........and there you hit the REALITY and by then you have already forgotten about those two lines......since you never got a chance to meet Mr.Right as you dreamt

Well...SO!!! now If I see my cousin who is a teenager , I see the same dreams reflecting in her eyes and I look back and laugh at myself that I imagined my Mr.Right to enter my life exactly the same way like in DDLJ ....lol....but I never realized that each one of us have a completely different love story to say and My Story beats even my dreams....:)

I failed to analyze that I was always in love with my Mr.Right whom I always knew...Those two lines made an impact on me way back then because I was in love and all those beautiful stories made an impact on me because I was in love. It just took a while to understand that my soul mate had always been next me as my best friend right from that eight grade. Now, I am living a reality with an element of love but then the meaning hits me more now because here is the time when I had to let him go....and here I wait......forever

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