"Next to a fake compliment , i would prefer a honest and a well deserved rebuke"....
In corporate world or may be among our circle of friends,you would have received compliments that seem irrelevant and fictitious. At times you tend to think "okay.....he/she did nt have to give me compliment right now.... i did nt actually do anything great that deserves an appraisal ....what is in his/her mind???". In deed it takes just fraction of seconds to find out if the compliment was from the heart and genuine(that is what we think)...
did you ever go wrong in differentiating between artless and artful people???most often what we see and result are not true...
lets say....when u get good scores in a subject , on which you were consistently working for a period of time and someone praises you on the final result , then that person (known or
unknown) is your best friend and all those compliments are genuine.But in case you fail in the subject , someone appreciating you for your hard work or potential to score well next time, seems fake and irrelevant.
i m not trying to make a point that ...."we are wrong in judging people and very often those who support us in our failure are very earnest.."
sometimes you can not be blamed for misjudging......The law of consummates is always in clandestine.
For tricky people ...."since the theory says life is a game...so m playing it well by knocking other people out..." and how do they apply their strategy ?? by a right compliment when you may or may not deserve it and at the same time you will not realize its fake.......
well....that ' s another kind of attitude among people ...u are safe till you know which player works on potential and which one on strategies and your reaction towards it also makes a difference ...that is..... are you verbally assaulting or keeping your frustration low and just forgetting it and going with your work with a focused mind .....
life is a game anyways.......but its upto you to choose .... to play with or against other players.......
1 comment:
hmm...I have different views to it. I don't believe that Life's a game. Its just not about analyzing or interpreting others comments on our success of failure. It all starts when we start "analyzing" a person or his motive. This thought process might land us into +ve or -ve views on the person. Poor fella, he might have said you've performed well on a low scoring subject to boost your confidence.
Life is just taking whatever comes to you and carving it, instead of analyzing everything that comes you. Especially when it comes analyzing "PERSONS" ... you never know when you can make a mistake and how fatal it could be.
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