"if Confusion is the first step to knowledge , then i m a Genius".........
very often people tell me....."i really cant interpret your thinking or writing...." and when someone says that... the first statement that hits my mind is ........."i m confused yeah!!!! then may be i m laying a welcome mat at the door of creativity "......
i just speak out and write what ever strikes my mind....the microseconds of thought process that is needed is absolutely missing.......but i have no regrets....since i m what i m......(reebok...)
At times i realize that "damid!!!! i dont have any secrets about myself" that's only when someone reminds me about it.....i dont care and continuously jabber about everything that is peculiar in this world.......most often confusion takes its stand when one can not comprehend what the speaker or writer is trying to convey.......and we just conclude by saying "he/she is just crapping".....in a sophisticated sense..."they are unclear in their thinking".......i would say its because "all the great people on earth cant think alike" .......
well....today if you are not confused then you are just not thinking clearly......confused ???
when you have two things running in your mind and you are confused on which one should you choose....then you are confused ..but when you have both the things in hand and you have chosen to handle both quite well....then for others you look confused......
it is a funny theory which is "either listeners have less time or no time for nonsense"..which is true......and i cant believe someone is actually reading this blog....
anyways all that i want to convey is "when you can not convince someone then confuse them......."
confusing others is smartness.....getting confused is creativity ......
finally......your intellect might be confused but your emotions will never lie to you......
have fun!!!!live it up!!! in turmoil.........
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Saturday, March 22, 2008
A compliment is a verbal sunshine??.............
"Next to a fake compliment , i would prefer a honest and a well deserved rebuke"....
In corporate world or may be among our circle of friends,you would have received compliments that seem irrelevant and fictitious. At times you tend to think "okay.....he/she did nt have to give me compliment right now.... i did nt actually do anything great that deserves an appraisal ....what is in his/her mind???". In deed it takes just fraction of seconds to find out if the compliment was from the heart and genuine(that is what we think)...
did you ever go wrong in differentiating between artless and artful people???most often what we see and result are not true...
lets say....when u get good scores in a subject , on which you were consistently working for a period of time and someone praises you on the final result , then that person (known or
unknown) is your best friend and all those compliments are genuine.But in case you fail in the subject , someone appreciating you for your hard work or potential to score well next time, seems fake and irrelevant.
i m not trying to make a point that ...."we are wrong in judging people and very often those who support us in our failure are very earnest.."
sometimes you can not be blamed for misjudging......The law of consummates is always in clandestine.
For tricky people ...."since the theory says life is a game...so m playing it well by knocking other people out..." and how do they apply their strategy ?? by a right compliment when you may or may not deserve it and at the same time you will not realize its fake.......
well....that ' s another kind of attitude among people ...u are safe till you know which player works on potential and which one on strategies and your reaction towards it also makes a difference ...that is..... are you verbally assaulting or keeping your frustration low and just forgetting it and going with your work with a focused mind .....
life is a game anyways.......but its upto you to choose .... to play with or against other players.......
In corporate world or may be among our circle of friends,you would have received compliments that seem irrelevant and fictitious. At times you tend to think "okay.....he/she did nt have to give me compliment right now.... i did nt actually do anything great that deserves an appraisal ....what is in his/her mind???". In deed it takes just fraction of seconds to find out if the compliment was from the heart and genuine(that is what we think)...
did you ever go wrong in differentiating between artless and artful people???most often what we see and result are not true...
lets say....when u get good scores in a subject , on which you were consistently working for a period of time and someone praises you on the final result , then that person (known or
unknown) is your best friend and all those compliments are genuine.But in case you fail in the subject , someone appreciating you for your hard work or potential to score well next time, seems fake and irrelevant.
i m not trying to make a point that ...."we are wrong in judging people and very often those who support us in our failure are very earnest.."
sometimes you can not be blamed for misjudging......The law of consummates is always in clandestine.
For tricky people ...."since the theory says life is a game...so m playing it well by knocking other people out..." and how do they apply their strategy ?? by a right compliment when you may or may not deserve it and at the same time you will not realize its fake.......
well....that ' s another kind of attitude among people ...u are safe till you know which player works on potential and which one on strategies and your reaction towards it also makes a difference ...that is..... are you verbally assaulting or keeping your frustration low and just forgetting it and going with your work with a focused mind .....
life is a game anyways.......but its upto you to choose .... to play with or against other players.......
Wednesday, March 19, 2008
Make your style statement.........
"All the good looking women in world are not always on television screens or fashion magazines....sometimes she could be the one serving the coffee at home"
with a degree of medicine or masters she is abiding to her work and simultaneously towards her family ethics and obligations. Is she self abnegating by being altruistic towards her family and society ? what does she gain out of it? most of all she receives neither credit nor approbation for her work.She can be a mother,a wife,a business magnate , or a teacher....she is indeed a women.
most often we miscalculate a highly qualified woman by her apparel. what we wear always signifies what we think. It is a known fact that colors signify our moods and it has a direct implication on our cloths.That is the kind of color we pick while shopping or from our wardrobe.But most of the women miss out the general theory that fashion statement is not about being stylish or trendy clothing....its about a combo of trend with choice of color that goes with the complexion.
Busy schedules of work and maintaining a balance between two prime phrases of life (work and family) is never an excuse in fact not even relevant for just an eye liner or a mascara which would take less than a minute to apply.
confidence and comeliness have always been counterparts,its not that we did nt know about it but its just that we tend to ignore it .Lifestyles change with popular brands
( Gucci,A/X,Balmain,Bottega Veneta,Dior,versace,Donna karan,louis vuitton etc....). What is the use of earning a lot when u cant spend for your self and going for branded stuff.
so make a style statement , feel confident and look good!!!!
with a degree of medicine or masters she is abiding to her work and simultaneously towards her family ethics and obligations. Is she self abnegating by being altruistic towards her family and society ? what does she gain out of it? most of all she receives neither credit nor approbation for her work.She can be a mother,a wife,a business magnate , or a teacher....she is indeed a women.
most often we miscalculate a highly qualified woman by her apparel. what we wear always signifies what we think. It is a known fact that colors signify our moods and it has a direct implication on our cloths.That is the kind of color we pick while shopping or from our wardrobe.But most of the women miss out the general theory that fashion statement is not about being stylish or trendy clothing....its about a combo of trend with choice of color that goes with the complexion.
Busy schedules of work and maintaining a balance between two prime phrases of life (work and family) is never an excuse in fact not even relevant for just an eye liner or a mascara which would take less than a minute to apply.
confidence and comeliness have always been counterparts,its not that we did nt know about it but its just that we tend to ignore it .Lifestyles change with popular brands
( Gucci,A/X,Balmain,Bottega Veneta,Dior,versace,Donna karan,louis vuitton etc....). What is the use of earning a lot when u cant spend for your self and going for branded stuff.
so make a style statement , feel confident and look good!!!!
Sunday, March 16, 2008
Its all about just a "hi"...........
Each day is a new start......a perpetual task of running behind dreams...
money,success, recognition, empire,popularity and to be at the top level kind of attitude , is what i see among people in the world today.A right attitude though..
For a writer the this these kind of statements are just a part of lexicon or a dictionary but for others its a requirement sometimes even more than what they consider important for their elixir of life..
Technology of course creates lifeless gadgets but was the question ever asked about people turning into gadgets by leading a mechanical life.
Its again an individuals choice you could say....well if an individual decides on going for something that is same as what the rest of the crowd does ,
then its considered "substandard" because its as simple as just saying "jump into the well since everybody is..." so get into the hectic professions.
Time....another understated word. Either people act or are really so busy that just to say "hi" is a loss of few microseconds...but again not everyone is artful ,there are people who do find time to say "hellooo" with a wide smile and hugs and surprisingly most often these are the people who are buried in workload and they are still cheerful. They must be tagged as "Champions"
What had i leant from Champions ??
No matter how much of pressure of work is on your head ,just CHillax...and work smart not hard..
Different people with different notions and chaotic schedules....but just a smile and a "hi" to your loved one's ,friends and collegues makes all the difference ......
money,success, recognition, empire,popularity and to be at the top level kind of attitude , is what i see among people in the world today.A right attitude though..
For a writer the this these kind of statements are just a part of lexicon or a dictionary but for others its a requirement sometimes even more than what they consider important for their elixir of life..
Technology of course creates lifeless gadgets but was the question ever asked about people turning into gadgets by leading a mechanical life.
Its again an individuals choice you could say....well if an individual decides on going for something that is same as what the rest of the crowd does ,
then its considered "substandard" because its as simple as just saying "jump into the well since everybody is..." so get into the hectic professions.
Time....another understated word. Either people act or are really so busy that just to say "hi" is a loss of few microseconds...but again not everyone is artful ,there are people who do find time to say "hellooo" with a wide smile and hugs and surprisingly most often these are the people who are buried in workload and they are still cheerful. They must be tagged as "Champions"
What had i leant from Champions ??
No matter how much of pressure of work is on your head ,just CHillax...and work smart not hard..
Different people with different notions and chaotic schedules....but just a smile and a "hi" to your loved one's ,friends and collegues makes all the difference ......
Saturday, March 15, 2008
Why are Leo's eccentric ???
(the short draft written below can be assumed as fiction or author's opinion... it was nt written considering any one's unique behavior .Any resemblance to someone's character can leave a comment....)
..............LEO TELEFILMS PRESENTS .........
short analysis on leo's
LEO........an outstanding sign among all the zodiac symbols.....y?? because it symbolizes a lion and it goes with out saying that domination comes to these people naturally. Born with the blessing of magnanimous glory...they are passionate about their work and appreciate every aspect of their life.
Coming to the central point on what makes them eccentric and stand apart is just the dogmatic attitude they procure...being the center of attention , clarity in thought and speech , confidence at times over confidence , popping up in every conversion among their friends to create an impact that "hey look!!! i m present" and giving a general opinion , and ruling out those who dont really are up to their standards of friendship or any relationship for that matter.....cant really say if they are heart or mind rulers but yet given a chance can rule the world....
they hold a high opinion and honestly detests those who are ambiguous and ambivalent ....but truly their diligence in work , artless nature , and frank opinion imprints that they stand apart from others because they are wise kings......
so to all those who are reading this..... most of your friends might be leo's ....dont try to praise them because they don't usually fall for adulation ...but in case you are a leo..... well....do i know u??
..............LEO TELEFILMS PRESENTS .........
short analysis on leo's
LEO........an outstanding sign among all the zodiac symbols.....y?? because it symbolizes a lion and it goes with out saying that domination comes to these people naturally. Born with the blessing of magnanimous glory...they are passionate about their work and appreciate every aspect of their life.
Coming to the central point on what makes them eccentric and stand apart is just the dogmatic attitude they procure...being the center of attention , clarity in thought and speech , confidence at times over confidence , popping up in every conversion among their friends to create an impact that "hey look!!! i m present" and giving a general opinion , and ruling out those who dont really are up to their standards of friendship or any relationship for that matter.....cant really say if they are heart or mind rulers but yet given a chance can rule the world....
they hold a high opinion and honestly detests those who are ambiguous and ambivalent ....but truly their diligence in work , artless nature , and frank opinion imprints that they stand apart from others because they are wise kings......
so to all those who are reading this..... most of your friends might be leo's ....dont try to praise them because they don't usually fall for adulation ...but in case you are a leo..... well....do i know u??
Friday, March 14, 2008
looks can be deceptive......
Most of you might have spoken out or thought of these words "looks can be deceptive..." in an appropriate context....lets say...
When you lost an address and you had no choice but to ask for directions to someone whom you thought might actually waste your time since he/she does nt seem to know your language and at times they might surprise you by being linguists(knowing many languages including your) ....
When you were sitting in an aircraft for a journey that lasts more than ten hours n you expect a hot chic /dude to come and sit next to you and sadly a stout man happens to take up the honorable next seat. Just before you could say oh damid!! someone asks him an autograph and to your surprise he is a film star...
You were hitting on a gal assuming she is of your age group and she turns out to be a mother of two kids..
You happen to relax on your most comfortable couch in your backyard enjoying the cup of coffee and in just a blink of the eyes you see a hunk in the opposite house and there goes no more blinks after that.... and next day your boss introduces him as the new project manager.....(that would be stunning rather than deception)....
There is nt anything as interesting and exciting than writing and talking about lot of stupid instances we come across in life.....we would have had many memorable moments with our best buddies , at times the silly moments with strangers that might just last for few seconds are more cherished later in life.
may be its you who will be meeting a stranger in the near future......get prepared friends lot of surprises are in your way.....have fun living it up!!!!
well.....hi did we meet up in sam's or may be puja's wedding reception???or did i see you in a rock show ??
When you lost an address and you had no choice but to ask for directions to someone whom you thought might actually waste your time since he/she does nt seem to know your language and at times they might surprise you by being linguists(knowing many languages including your) ....
When you were sitting in an aircraft for a journey that lasts more than ten hours n you expect a hot chic /dude to come and sit next to you and sadly a stout man happens to take up the honorable next seat. Just before you could say oh damid!! someone asks him an autograph and to your surprise he is a film star...
You were hitting on a gal assuming she is of your age group and she turns out to be a mother of two kids..
You happen to relax on your most comfortable couch in your backyard enjoying the cup of coffee and in just a blink of the eyes you see a hunk in the opposite house and there goes no more blinks after that.... and next day your boss introduces him as the new project manager.....(that would be stunning rather than deception)....
There is nt anything as interesting and exciting than writing and talking about lot of stupid instances we come across in life.....we would have had many memorable moments with our best buddies , at times the silly moments with strangers that might just last for few seconds are more cherished later in life.
may be its you who will be meeting a stranger in the near future......get prepared friends lot of surprises are in your way.....have fun living it up!!!!
well.....hi did we meet up in sam's or may be puja's wedding reception???or did i see you in a rock show ??
Thursday, March 13, 2008
You dont care....Do you???
Have you ever been in a situation where ........
Every possible way of coming out of it seems occluded,
Your family assailed remarks about your behavior,
You are blamed for misleading someone,
Your best pal's girl/boy friend is being flirtatious towards you,
You just missed your dream job n every other job seems worthless,
OR
You stand as a reason for your loved one's demise.....
All of us come across situations where we go through different state of emotion. There is a common saying "a friend in need is a friend in deed" , "a best friend is one who helps you in happiness and sorrow". well....such saying's are just grandiloquent statements....practically it means absolute nonsense today.
There is nt anything as worst as expecting someone to help you in a problem or introspecting on what went wrong......socially , if you come out of a critical situation wisely then you are considered as a smarty ...and if you get associated with it then you are the biggest dumbo ever born on this planet...... do you believe that?? do you think people around you should state your sense of action???
Well.....i would say...the more one cares about how society looks at it rather than individual's perspective are nt living life, they just exist. Exist on others opinion.
Good or bad.....its just part of life.....have a jug of beer and forget everything for a while....may you smile for every situation and keep away all your worries by just saying ...... cheers!!!!
Every possible way of coming out of it seems occluded,
Your family assailed remarks about your behavior,
You are blamed for misleading someone,
Your best pal's girl/boy friend is being flirtatious towards you,
You just missed your dream job n every other job seems worthless,
OR
You stand as a reason for your loved one's demise.....
All of us come across situations where we go through different state of emotion. There is a common saying "a friend in need is a friend in deed" , "a best friend is one who helps you in happiness and sorrow". well....such saying's are just grandiloquent statements....practically it means absolute nonsense today.
There is nt anything as worst as expecting someone to help you in a problem or introspecting on what went wrong......socially , if you come out of a critical situation wisely then you are considered as a smarty ...and if you get associated with it then you are the biggest dumbo ever born on this planet...... do you believe that?? do you think people around you should state your sense of action???
Well.....i would say...the more one cares about how society looks at it rather than individual's perspective are nt living life, they just exist. Exist on others opinion.
Good or bad.....its just part of life.....have a jug of beer and forget everything for a while....may you smile for every situation and keep away all your worries by just saying ...... cheers!!!!
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